Suggested Interview Questions
1. Why is it so common to try to find an earthly substitute to fulfill the needs that only God can fill?
2. Your title has received some skepticism from men thinking your book is an attack on men. What is your message to men and women in your book?
3. What are some of the myths women believe? What is the truth to these myths?
4. How does our craving for intimacy make us susceptible to Satan’s deceptions?
5. In your own life, what did you learn about substituting an earthly relationship for intimacy with God?
6. Your book shows women how to break free from Satan’s deception and ultimately release the notion that a man will validate her worth. How do women begin to re-pattern their thinking?
7. A recurrent theme in your book is that only God can satisfy the longing of our soul, that He loves us deeply, madly and passionately. Why is it crucial for us to understand this before we become involved with another person?
8. What steps are involved to enjoy an earthly relationship without being dependent on it to fulfill the needs that only God can fulfill?
9. Are women guilty of forcing men into unrealistic expectations of rescuing them?
10. Why do you believe if our happiness hinges on a man’s perfection, we are destined for disappointment and devastation?
11. How do we avoid attributing to man the position that belongs to God?
12. How does the deception that a man only wants one thing contradict God’s design and misalign His plan for marriage?
13. Why is it dangerous for a woman to believe she can change or try to change a man’s heart?
14. Are women predisposed to a desire to control a man?
15. Why is there an underlying belief that men and women are at odds with one another?
16. Your book addresses the lies we believe about men; what are some of the truths we should believe?
17. What do you recommend parents of girls share when it comes to relationships?
18. You expose some pretty real and raw details from your life. What caused you to write so transparently?
19. In what ways can a woman connect with a man in a healthy spiritual and emotional manner that is blessed by God?
20. How does your story resonate and apply to other women even if they are single, married, young, old, daughters or mothers?
21. One of the most riveting stories you share an accounts of your emotions surrounding your father’s death…and your desire to have a man rescue you…how did your dad’s passing solidify a greater revelation of grace and healing?
22. What has been the reaction of this book from family members?
23. How can people stay updated on your projects?